可可電臺(tái)，每期節(jié)目一話(huà)題，讓英語(yǔ)磨練耳朵的同時(shí)學(xué)到更多有益的小知識(shí)，豐富知識(shí)的同時(shí)受益于生活。

You Can't Make Friends with this man

你不能結(jié)交的朋友

The Controller

控制狂

Being a Controller is part of this person's personality, which means it's a harder trait to break.

做個(gè)控制者是這樣人個(gè)性的一部分，這意味著這種性格是較難糾正的。

But it can be frustrating for you to be dominated so much.Maybe the Controller has to pick out everything you do as friends andgives an opinion on everything you do or want to do without being asked. Thereis no give and take, as the Controller is uncomfortable and bossy if you want to make a choice about something.

但是，如果對(duì)你而言，受控很?chē)?yán)重，那就很令人沮喪。或許，同這種控制狂交朋友，他會(huì)給你做過(guò)的、正做的和想要做的每件事情都很“熱心地”給出意見(jiàn)，用不容商量的口氣;因?yàn)槿绻阆雽?duì)某件事做一選擇，控制狂會(huì)不安而專(zhuān)橫。

If you want to keep the friendship alive, let the person know how much you dislike being controlled. This trait, though, may become so negative that you may need to break ties.

如果你不想放棄這份友誼，就讓那個(gè)人知道你有多么不喜歡被控制。只是，這種個(gè)性可能會(huì)變得很消極，以至你需要斷絕這種關(guān)系。

【知識(shí)點(diǎn)津】

trait n.特點(diǎn)，特性；少許

例句：

Creativity is a human trait.

創(chuàng)造力是人類(lèi)的一種特性。

dominate v.支配，影響；占有優(yōu)勢(shì)

例句：

It is appropriate that Irish names dominatethe list.

名單上大部分是愛(ài)爾蘭名字，這沒(méi)什么不合適的。

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