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You Can't Make Friends with this man

你不能結交的朋友

The Downer

掃興者

"The Downer is a person you have to let into your life with care because this trait can be contagious,"Yager says.

耶格說：“當你讓掃興者進人你的生活時，你必須小心，因為他的這種性格會感染他人”。

It goes without saying, of course, that these typesare always down, but ironically, if you're upbeat and positive, that may be the reason the Downer was attracted to you in the first place.

當然，不用說，這樣的人一直很悲觀、很消極，但是有諷刺意味的是，如果你達觀而積極，那可能正是掃興者被你吸引的首要原因。

It is not your job to be a therapist. But realizethat she may not be able to change without professional help.

做一名心理治療師可不是你的工作，但是你要認識到如果沒有專業人士的幫助她可能也改變不了。

Decide if she has any redeeming traits and if you can stay upbeat around her.

因此，你要確定是否她還有什么補償性的性格，是否有她在身邊你仍可以保持達觀。

If not, end the friendship. Don't keep her around just because you feel sorry for her

如果答案是否定的，那么結束友誼，不要僅僅因為你同情她就和她繼續交往。

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