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6. Admit your mistakes. This is extremely effective and disarming. When I got my first job, my father told me, "If you take the blame, you'll get the responsibility." I've found that to be very true. Difficult, but true. Admitting mistakes is the first step, then…
承認自己的錯誤。 這是極為有效、消解的方法。當我獲得第一份工作時，我的父親曾告訴我：“如果你承擔了責備，你將會獲得責任” 我發現這一點很正確。難但是卻正確。承認錯誤是第一步，接下來...
7. Explain what you've learned. If you can show a critic that you've learned something, you prove that you've understood the criticism and tried to act on it. That, itself, usually mollifies critics.
解釋你已經學到了什么。如果你能向一位批評者展示你學到了某樣東西，那么你在證明自己已經理解了批評，并且試圖采取行動。這本身就能讓批評者安靜下來。
8. Enjoy the fun of failure. Re-frame the issue entirely to embrace criticism. Fact is, trying new things and aiming high opens you to criticism. I tell myself to Enjoy the fun of failure to try to re-frame failure and criticism as part of the fun. Otherwise, my dread of criticism can paralyze me.
What am I overlooking? Have you found any other strategies that work for you?
享受失敗的樂趣。 重新轉化這個事情，擁抱批評。事實上，嘗試新事物、眼光高都會讓你更容易被批評。在《享受失敗的樂趣》一文中我告訴自己重建失敗、批評，將它們作為樂趣的一部分。不然的話，我對批評的恐懼將讓我行為癱瘓。
我漏掉了什么沒有?你有沒有發現其它有用的方法?
