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The joy of learning. The joy of… Where is it? Where is it? Where does it go?
學習的喜悅 這種喜悅上哪兒去了 去哪兒了
Well it goes away because we come to a certain age when we begin to understand other people are watching us, and then the image kicks in.
它消失了 因為我們到了一定年紀 開始意識到別人在看我們 開始產生種種想法
"I'm not going to try, because what if I fall?" Or "I'm not going to ask her out, because what if she says no?"
“我不要試 萬一摔倒怎么辦” 或者“我不要約她出去 萬一她拒絕怎么辦”
"Oh no no no. I'm not going to try for this play, because hardly anyone gets that."
“哦 不不 我不要演這出戲 萬一沒人看懂怎么辦”
"Oh I'm not going to share, because what if they don't like what I have to say." Or "everyone is so smart. I'm not going to speak up."
“哦 我不要分享經歷 萬一有人不喜歡怎么辦” 又或者“大家都這么聰明 我還不獻丑了”
And we avoid instead of coping. And that affects our self esteem, our confidence, our resilience, our happiness levels in the long term.
我們開始逃避而不是應對 這會影響我們的自尊 信心 樂觀精神 長期的快樂指數
Or we go on a date. And everything has to be so perfect. So perfect.
約會時一切必須很完美 非常完美
Forgetting how we learn how to eat in the first place.
忘了我們第一次學吃飯是什么樣子
Learn to fail or fail to learn. This is not actually concrete recommendation for your first date. I don't think it will work.
學習失敗 從失敗中學習 這不是第一次約會的實在建議 恐怕行不通
But remember, remember how we learnt. There is no other way. No other way to grow. No other way to learn. No other way to become more resilient, happier, more successful.
但記得我們是如何學習的 別無他法 成長沒有捷徑 學習也沒有捷徑 樂觀 快樂 成功更沒有捷徑
Have I said this before? This is my personal mantra that I repeat to myself over and over again, especially after failures, especially before doing things when I'm afraid to do it, when I said well, maybe I shouldn't do.
我以前說過這個嗎 這是我的私人禱文 我常常一遍又一遍對自己誦讀 尤其是遇到失敗 或者需要克服恐懼 出現“也許我不該做”這類想法時
