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Such a privilege. And I am so unhappy.
應該感到榮幸 但我一點也不快樂”
I don't think it is something that is external. I must understand myself better. And it was at that point that I decided to switch my concentration to philosophy and psychology wanting to understand the meaning of a happy life, wanting to understand how I could become happier and why I was not.
我覺得這不是外部問題 我必須更好地了解自己 于是 我轉而研究哲學與心理學 希望了解快樂生活的意義 了解如何才能更快樂 為什么我不快樂
And it was very quickly that I realized, that I understood that I was engaged, or suffering from something that is so common, so pervasive and so misunderstood. Perfectionism. This is what I want to talk about today, and what I want to talk about in the next lecture. This notion of perfectionism and what the research has to say about it.
很快我意識到 我發現自己從事… 或者說遭受到某種普遍且錯誤的觀念折磨—完美主義 這就是今天 及下節課的主題：完美主義的概念以及對完美主義的研究
Now there is no perfectionist, there is no one person who is on this extreme, nor there is a person who's on the excellence extreme which I will depict later.
人無完人 沒有人會處于糟糕的極端 也沒有人會處于卓越的極端 這點我等會兒會細講
The key is how do I become happier and I become happier by being less and less perfectionistic.
關鍵是 如何變得更快樂 隨著我漸漸脫離完美主義 我變得更快樂了
Perfectionism is not about giving up ambition. I'm as ambitious, or possibly more ambitious than I was at age of 16 or 23. It's about having a different approach toward the journey of our life, toward each step of the way-specifically, toward failure.
完美主義并不是說要放棄志向 我有志向 甚至可能比16或23歲時志向更遠大 而是說對人生歷程 對走出的每一步 尤其是對失敗 采取一種不同的方法與態度
