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When women get manhandled, we start to rationalize, try to figure out the ways that it was...
當女性受到粗暴對待時，我們開始試圖將該行為合理化，試著弄清其中的原因...
"It was probably our fault. You know what? He probably said something, and I didn't hear him.
“可能是我的錯。你知道嗎，可能他說了什么，是我自己沒聽見。
I'm just overreacting. I'm totally overreacting."
我有點小題大作了。是我太小題大作了。”
No. No. No. No, no, no, no, no.
不。沒有。不是這樣的。這樣想就大錯特錯了。
Women have been trained to think that we are overreacting or that we're being too sensitive or unreasonable.
一直以來，女性都被要求去反省自己小題大作，反省自己的敏感和無理。
We try to make sense of nonsense, and we swallow the furious feelings.
我們試著去理解這些無理的事情，然后我們咽下惱火的情緒。
We try to put them into some hidden place in our minds, but they don't go away.
試著把怒火放到腦海中隱蔽的地方，但是怒火并沒有消失。
That fury sits deep inside as we practice our smiles -- "Yes, of course" -- and try to be pleasant.
當我們練習微笑的時候，怒火依然在腦海深處--“是的，當然”--努力讓自己笑臉迎人。
"I know --" "Yes, yes, of course," because apparently, women aren't supposed to get angry.
“我知道--” “是，是，當然了，”因為很明顯，大家都認為女性不應該生氣。
That fury that my friend felt holds centuries of never being able to directly address
我朋友感受的那種惱火承載了數個世紀以來，未能直接說出
or express our indignation, our frustration and our rage.
或抒發出來的憤慨、挫敗和憤怒。
When someone thinks they can help themselves to our bodies,
當有人認為他們可以替我們的身體做主時，
it not only ignites the current fury, but it lights up the past.
不僅點燃了現下的怒火，更點燃了過去。
What seems like a benign moment at the post office is actually an anger grenade.
在郵局看似無害的一幕，其實是一枚憤怒的手榴彈。
Well, kaboom! Today, the global collection of women's experiences can no longer be ignored.
然后，轟！今天全球女性的經歷，已不能再被忽視了。
Time's up on thinking that we're overreacting or "This is just the way it is."
別再怪自己小題大作了，或者覺得“本來就是這樣的吧。”
Time's up on women being held responsible for men's bad behavior.
現在不再是女性為男性的錯誤行為負責的時候了。
It is men's responsibility to change men's bad behavior.
男性應該負責改變自己的不當行為。
