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Now, today my identity quest is no longer to find my tribe.
現(xiàn)在我對自己身份的追尋不再是為了找到我的部族。
It's more about allowing myself to embrace all of the possible permutations of myself
而是為了允許我接受自己所有的可能性，形成自身的多元化，
and cultivating diversity within me and not just around me.
而不僅僅是周邊環(huán)境的多元化。
My boys now are three years and five months old today, and they were already born with three nationalities and four languages.
我的兒子已經(jīng)3歲5個月了，他們出生就有3個國籍，4種語言。
I should mention now that my husband is actually from Denmark
對，現(xiàn)在我應(yīng)該告訴大家，我丈夫是丹麥人，
just in case I don't have enough culture shocks in my life, I decided to marry a Danish guy.
就是為了防止生活給我的文化沖擊還不夠猛烈，因此我嫁給了一個丹麥人。
In fact, I think my kids will be the first Vikings who will have a hard time growing a beard when they become older.
我想我的孩子應(yīng)該是第一批長不出絡(luò)腮胡的維京人吧。
Yeah, we'll have to work on that.
沒錯，我們得解決這個問題。
But I really hope that they will find that their multiplicity is going to open and create a lot of doors for them in their lives,
但我真的希望，他們的多樣性，能給他們的生活帶來多一點可能，
and that they can use this as a way to find commonality in a world that's increasingly global today.
他們可以好好利用這一點，在今天這個越來越全球化的世界中找到共性。
I hope that instead of feeling anxious and worried that they don't fit in that one box or that their identity will become irrelevant someday,
我希望他們不用感到焦慮和擔(dān)心，自己無法適應(yīng)陳規(guī)，或者自己的身份某天變得不再重要，
that they can feel free to experiment and to take control of their personal narrative and identity.
他們可以自由地去嘗試，掌控自己的個性和身份。
I also hope that they will use their unique combination of values and languages and cultures and skills
我還希望他們充分利用自己獨特的優(yōu)勢，把不同價值觀、語言、文化和技能結(jié)合起來，
to help create a world where identities are no longer used to alienate what looks different, but rather, to bring together people.
幫助建立一個世界，讓身份不再使得不同外表的人相互疏遠(yuǎn)，相反的，讓他們相互靠近。
And most importantly, I really hope that they find tremendous joy in going through these uncharted territories, because I know I have.
最重要的是，我真心希望他們在探索這個未知領(lǐng)域的時候能夠得到巨大的快樂，因為我知道我是快樂的。
Now, as for my grandmother, her last wish was also her last lesson to me.
對于我外婆來說，她的遺愿也是她給我上的最后一課。
It turns out that it was never about going back to Korea and being buried there.
其實是否回到韓國，安葬在那里，并不重要。
It was about resting next to her son, who had died long before she moved to Argentina.
重要的是跟她的兒子葬在一起，她的兒子在她來阿根廷之前就已經(jīng)去世了。
What mattered to her was not the ocean that divided her past and new world; it was about finding common ground. Thank you.
對她而言，重要的不是那海洋，分隔了她的舊生活和新生活，而是找到那一片共同的土地。謝謝大家。
