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At the end of the week, he comes and the rabbi says, "how are things going?"
他來(lái)見(jiàn)拉比，拉比問(wèn)"現(xiàn)在情況怎么樣？"
"Rabbi, it's wonderful. We have so much place. The smell is so good.
"拉比，太好了，家里寬敞多了，氣味太好聞了"
We are getting along now like we hadn't ever before. The kids are happy. Thank you so much, rabbi."
"我們一家人樂(lè)也融融，孩子很高興，非常感激你，拉比"
Now here is the question. Do things need to get worse before we appreciate what's right in front of us and all around us?
問(wèn)題來(lái)了。我們要等到情況惡化才得到感激眼前和身邊的好事嗎？
When do we begin to appreciate our health?
我們什么時(shí)候開(kāi)始感激健康？
When do we begin to appreciate our health? When something goes wrong with us or with someone else.
我們什么時(shí)候開(kāi)始感激健康？等我們或旁人的身體現(xiàn)出問(wèn)題時(shí)
When do we begin to appreciate life?
我們什么時(shí)候開(kāi)始感激生活？
When ours is in danger, or when we lose someone dear to us.
當(dāng)我們有危險(xiǎn)時(shí)，當(dāng)我們失去親友時(shí)
And the question that we need to ask ourselves is "must something external, extraordinary, unusually tragic happen for us to appreciate the ordinary?"
我們需要問(wèn)自己一個(gè)問(wèn)題，一定要等外界發(fā)生一些異常的悲劇時(shí)我們才開(kāi)始感激習(xí)以為常的東西嗎？
You see there are treasures of happiness all around us and within us,
我們身邊和內(nèi)心都有無(wú)盡的幸福
right next to us — in the dinning hall, sitting next to you here, in your room at home.
就在我們身邊，餐廳里，坐在旁邊的同學(xué)，在你家里的房間
There are wonderful things- things that are worth your appreciation all around us or within us.
我們身邊我們心里，有很多好事值得我們感激
But we take them for granted and do we need to wait for that.
但我們都把它們習(xí)以為常，真的要等悲劇發(fā)生嗎？
And the answer is no. No- if we learn gratitude as a way of life, if we cultivate the habit of gratitude.
答案是不，如果我們把感激當(dāng)成一種生活習(xí)慣，如果我們培養(yǎng)感恩的習(xí)慣
It is just as the media has cultivated the fault finding.
正如媒體培養(yǎng)我們成為消極者一樣
We can cultivate the benefit finding.
我們可以把自己培養(yǎng)成積極者
We can cultivate grateful. Because when we are grateful for something, we do not- we no longer take it for granted.
我們可以培養(yǎng)感恩之心，因?yàn)楫?dāng)我們感恩時(shí)，我們不再把好事習(xí)以為常
