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they begin to believe that no matter what they do, no matter what job they find they have a terrible boss,
他們開始相信無論他們做什么，無論找什么工作，總有個(gè)糟糕的老板
no matter what partners they have they are always awful and inconsiderate, no matter what restaurant they go to the service is always awful,
無論和什么人搭檔他們都很糟糕，不顧及別人，無論去什么飯店，服務(wù)總是很糟糕
and they always keep on getting the same peanut butter and jelly sandwich that they made for themselves.
他們總是吃同樣的花生醬和果凍三明治，是他們自己做的
And they resigned to the reality and that becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy of course, their existence.
他們向現(xiàn)實(shí)屈服，那同時(shí)當(dāng)然也讓他們的存在變成自我實(shí)現(xiàn)預(yù)言
A fault-finder makes lemonade out of lemons, sorry, makes lemon out of lemonade.
消極者用檸檬榨檸檬汁，抱歉，用檸檬汁做檸檬
The benefit-finder, research Julian Bauer, now at UCLA, the benefit-finder is the opposite, focuses on what works.
而積極者，加大洛杉磯分校的朱利安·鮑爾做的研究積極者相反，專注于成功的事物
The benefit-finder looks on the bright side of life, finds the silver lining in the dark cloud,
積極者專注生活的光明一面，在烏云籠罩中找到一絲白光
makes lemonade out of lemons, and doesn't fought an instructor for using too many cliches.
用檸檬榨檸檬汁，不因講師說太多陳詞濫調(diào)而和他爭吵
The benefit-finder finds the miracle in the common, Ralph Waldo Emerson, the consummate benefit-finder, focusing on the positive and what works.
積極者能在普通中找到奇跡，愛默生就是一個(gè)模范積極者，專注于積極面和進(jìn)展順利的事上
