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So it's just half of the equation and what these self-help books
所以這只是等式的一半，而這些自助書籍
and messages do is overpromise and under-deliver, which at times can be destructive. For example,
傳達的訊息往往言過其實，效果甚微，甚至可能會造成毀滅性后果。比如
if everything is based on the law of attraction. I created everything that everything is up to me and also everything is my fault.
如果一切皆建立于吸引力法則上，我創(chuàng)造了一切，一切都因我而變，一切都是我的錯
Even taking to the extreme, is a 3 years old girl responsible for being abused?
舉個極端點的例子，如果3歲小女孩被虐待，那是她的責(zé)任嗎
Is a 30 years old man responsible for being paralyzed as a result of an accident by a drunken driver?
30歲的男子被酒醉駕車的司機撞成癱瘓是他自己的責(zé)任嗎
There are certain things that are out there
有些事情是我們無法控制的
and when we say that everything is up to us, everything is created by the law of attraction,
所以一切因我而變，一切都由吸引力法則決定
then it's a prescription maybe in the short term for inspiration and for belief and for wellbeing, but in the long term,
這種說法短期內(nèi)可能能讓你堅定信念，獲得幸福感，但是長期來看
it's for frustration, for guilt, and for unhappiness.
只會讓人感到挫敗，內(nèi)疚，不快樂
And also for less success because if I really believe that it's all about thinking, then this is going to be my mind set.
離成功越來越遠，因為如果我真的相信一切都由思考決定，這種想法就會成為我的心態(tài)習(xí)慣
All I need to do is believe and then all the money will come to me.
只要有信心，錢就會滾滾而來
All the success in a relationship will come to me.
愛情就會降臨于我
And that does away with the hard work, with the persistence, with the failure that is necessary,
這抹殺了勤奮工作……堅韌不拔以及失敗的作用
part and parcel of a successful, happy, fulfilling, human life.
它們也是成功，幸福，完滿人生的必要組成部分
