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The ethereal quality that made her seem so spiritual to Jobs also made it hard for them to stay on the same wavelength.
這種讓她在喬布斯眼里與眾不同的不食人間煙火的特質，也使他們很難保持在同一頻段上。
"Their relationship was incredibly tempestuous," said Hertzfeld.
“他們的關系充滿了風暴，”赫茨菲爾德說，
"Because of both of their characters, they would have lots and lots of fights."
“由于他們的個性，他們會有很多很多爭吵。”
They also had a basic philosophical difference about whether aesthetic tastes were fundamentally individual, as Redse believed,
他們還有一個哲學層面的根本分歧，萊德斯認為審美品位是個人的事情，
or universal and could be taught, as Jobs believed.
而喬布斯認為有一個理想的統一的美的標準，人們應該被教育。
She accused him of being too influenced by the Bauhaus movement.
她說他受包豪斯運動的影響太大。
"Steve believed it was our job to teach people aesthetics, to teach people what they should like," she recalled.
“史蒂夫認為我們應該對大家進行美學教育，告訴人們他們應該喜歡什么，”她回憶說，
"I don't share that perspective. I believe when we listen deeply,
“我不認同這種想法。我認為如果我們認真地傾聽，
both within ourselves and to each other, we are able to allow what's innate and true to emerge."
無論對自己還是對其他人，就可以讓我們內心深處真實的東西浮現出來。”
When they were together for a long stretch, things did not work out well.
如果他們長時間在一起，就相處不好。
But when they were apart, Jobs would pine for her.
但當他們分開后，喬布斯又會對她思念不已。
Finally, in the summer of 1989, he asked her to marry him. She couldn't do it.
最終，1989年的夏天，他向她求婚。而她無法接受。
It would drive her crazy, she told friends. She had grown up in a volatile household,
她告訴朋友，那會讓她發瘋的。她在一個不和睦的家庭長大，
and her relationship with Jobs bore too many similarities to that environment.
而她與喬布斯的關系卻與之表現出太多的相似。
They were opposites who attracted, she said, but the combination was too combustible.
他們是異質相吸，她說，但是這種組合太易燃了。
