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18. Be the best parent you can be. We make all parenting decisions together. We are intentional about our parenting. Your spouse’s love and respect for you will grow when he or she sees you loving and parenting to the best of your ability.
做你能做的最好的父母，我們作一起撫養(yǎng)的決定。我們一起用心撫養(yǎng)。伴侶的愛和尊重你的心將增強(qiáng)當(dāng)當(dāng)他或她看到你盡最大能力去愛和撫養(yǎng)。
19. Give your spouse freedom. We give each other the freedom to do things that give us pleasure independently. Of course, we don’t take advantage of it, but giving your spouse the opportunity to do the things he or she enjoys is important.
給你的伴侶自由，我們給彼此的自由獨(dú)立做事,給我們快樂。當(dāng)然,我們不濫用它,但是給你的配偶機(jī)會(huì)做他或她喜歡的事情是很重要的。
20. Stay out of debt. Financial stress is the number one cause of divorce. Sit down together and create a budget that you will both stay committed to and don’t allow yourselves to justify spending more money than you make.
遠(yuǎn)離債務(wù)，金融壓力是造成離婚的原因之一。一起坐下來創(chuàng)建一個(gè)預(yù)算,您都將保持承諾,不允許自己花更多的錢比你賺的多。
21. Continue growing as people. We are both committed to learning, growing and achieving our personal best. This includes growing as a spouse, parent and individual. As one of us gets better, it helps the other person get better, just as iron sharpens iron.
繼續(xù)成長(zhǎng)。我們都致力于學(xué)習(xí),成長(zhǎng)和實(shí)現(xiàn)我們的個(gè)人最好成績(jī)。這包括成長(zhǎng)為配偶、父母和獨(dú)立的人。作為我們變得更好,它幫助別人變得更好,就像鐵磨鐵。
22. Love your spouse according to his or love language. Read Joy’s post titled, Loving People the Way They Need to be Loved to learn more about the significance of love languages.This is also available as a podcast you can listen to. So just go to littlethingsmatter.com, and in the searching bar type in Loving People the Way They Need to be Loved to learn more about the significance of learning love languages.
根據(jù)TA的愛的語言來愛你的伴侶，讀Joy發(fā)布的文章標(biāo)題，愛人需要了解更多關(guān)于愛的語言的重要性的方式。你還可以找到關(guān)于這篇文章的播客。你需要登錄小事業(yè)重要網(wǎng)站，在搜索欄中輸入用對(duì)方希望的方式愛他們，然后你就可以知道愛的語言的重要性了。
