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12. Be considerate. This means everything from cleaning up your mess to specifically avoiding doing or saying things that you know irritate your spouse.
體貼。這意味著從清理你的混亂的內(nèi)務(wù),特別要避免做或說(shuō)的事情你知道激怒你的配偶。
13. Understand it takes hard work. Building a marriage of 25 years is not easy. We have had some very difficult periods. We have even had to go to marriage counseling to work through difficult periods. Know there will be challenging times and when they occur, work through them with a genuine desire to improve your marriage.
理解需要努力工作。建立一個(gè)25年的婚姻是不容易的。我們有一些非常困難的時(shí)期。我們甚至不得不去婚姻咨詢工作度過(guò)困難時(shí)期。知道會(huì)有艱難時(shí)期,當(dāng)他們發(fā)生時(shí),有強(qiáng)烈通過(guò)它們的欲望來(lái)提高你的婚姻指標(biāo)。
14. Be Encouraging. When your spouse is going through a hard period of time, starting a new endeavor, or working on an important project, be there to encourage and support him or her. You should be your spouse’s number one fan.
鼓舞對(duì)方。當(dāng)你的配偶正在經(jīng)歷一段艱難的時(shí)間,開(kāi)始一個(gè)新的努力,或工作在一個(gè)重要的項(xiàng)目,鼓勵(lì)和支持他或她。你應(yīng)該你的配偶的頭號(hào)粉絲。
15. Always show respect to each other. This includes the way you communicate to each other, they way you talk about your spouse to others and the way you treat your spouse.
總是互相尊重。這包括你的溝通方式,他們對(duì)待你談?wù)撃愕呐渑嫉姆绞?你對(duì)待你的配偶的方式。
16. Make family decisions together. We are a team and we make all family related decisions as a team.
一起為家庭做決定。我們是一個(gè)團(tuán)隊(duì),作為一個(gè)團(tuán)隊(duì)我們讓大家一起做決策。
17. Leave your work at work. When you come home from work, resist the temptation to talk about work, unless your spouse wants to hear about it. Instead, focus your time together on subjects of interest to everyone.
離開(kāi)你的工作。當(dāng)你下班回家,抵制誘惑,不去談?wù)摴ぷ?除非你的配偶想聽(tīng)到它。相反,對(duì)于所有人，關(guān)注你想關(guān)注的興趣領(lǐng)域。
