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We communicate differently, extroverts and introverts.
外向者和內向者的交流方式有所不同。
Extroverts, when they interact, want to have lots of social encounter punctuated by closeness.
外向者在與人互動時喜歡肢體接觸，喜歡親近對方。
They'd like to stand close for comfortable communication.
他們喜歡靠近對方近距離交流。
They like to have a lot of eye contact, or mutual gaze.
他們喜歡眼神接觸，甚至相互凝視。
We found in some research that they use more diminutive terms when they meet somebody.
有研究表明，外向者更喜歡使用昵稱。
So when an extrovert meets a Charles,
比如當一個外向者遇見一個叫查爾斯的人，
it rapidly becomes "Charlie," and then "Chuck," and then "Chuckles Baby."
很快就會開始叫他“查理”，然后變成“查克”，然后變成“小查查”。
Whereas for introverts, it remains "Charles," until he's given a pass to be more intimate by the person he's talking to.
而內向者呢，會一直叫他“查理”，直到對方認為他倆的關系已經足夠親密。
We speak differently. Extroverts prefer black-and-white, concrete, simple language.
外向者和內向者的說話方式也不同。外向者喜歡確定、 具體、簡潔的語言。
Introverts prefer -- and I must again tell you that I am as extreme an introvert as you could possibly imagine -- we speak differently.
而內向者喜歡——我必須再次提醒大家，我是一個十足的內向者——我們說話方式很不一樣。
We prefer contextually complex, contingent, weasel-word sentences
我們內向者更喜歡說一些復雜難懂，模棱兩可，云山霧罩的話
More or less. As it were. Not to put too fine a point upon it -- like that.
或多或少吧。基本是這樣。不把話說死——就像剛才那樣。
When we talk, we sometimes talk past each other.
我們在說話的時候，經常會打太極，推來推去。
