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It relates to your kid -- you've been back three times to the hospital,
也許這事業(yè)跟孩子有關--你已經去醫(yī)院三趟了，
and they still don't know what's wrong. Or it could be your mom.
醫(yī)生們還是查不出你孩子的病因。或者生病的是你母親。
And you'd been acting out of character. These are free traits.
你會做一些跟你的性格不相符的事情。這些是可變的性格特點。
You're very agreeable, but you act disagreeably
你本和善可親卻表現(xiàn)得咄咄逼人，
in order to break down those barriers of administrative torpor in the hospital,
只為了對抗如今醫(yī)院里無處不在的懶散風氣，
to get something for your mom or your child.
讓自己的母親或者孩子得到及時治療。
What are these free traits?
這些可變的性格特點到底是什么？
They're where were enact a script in order to advance a core project in our lives.
那是我們演的一出戲，為了達成我們生命中最重要的目標。
And they are what matters.
而這才是最重要的。
Don't ask people what type you are; ask them, "What are your core projects in your life?"
不要問別人是什么性格的人，而要問他們，“你們生命中最重要的事是什么？”
And we enact those free traits.
然后我們身上的可變，性格特點就會被激發(fā)。
I'm an introvert, but I have a core project, which is to profess. I'm a professor.
我是一個內向的人，但我最重要的事業(yè)是教書。我是一名教授。
And I adore my students, and I adore my field.
我熱愛我的學生，也熱愛我的事業(yè)領域。
And I can't wait to tell them about what's new, what's exciting, what I can't wait to tell them about.
我總是迫不及待地想與他們分享那些新奇有趣的事情。
And so I act in an extroverted way,
因此我會表現(xiàn)得像一個外向的人，
because at eight in the morning, the students need a little bit of humor,
因為早上8點，學生需要一點幽默，
a little bit of engagement to keep them going in arduous days of study.
需要一點激勵才能熬過一天緊張的學習。
But we need to be very careful when we act protractedly out of character.
但是當我們扮演其他性格的時候需要萬分小心。
