評論
打印
On the other hand, when you focus on developing your unique strengths, talents and abilities, your self-image will grow, your insecurities will fade away and you will find great fulfillment, satisfaction and enjoyment in life.
而反過來，如果你講注意力集中在培養自己的特長、天賦和才能上，你會更加自信，你的不安感會逐漸退去，你會發現生活中充滿了成就感、滿足感和喜悅。
Oprah Winfrey said, “I was once afraid of people saying, “who does she think she is?” now I have the courage to stand and say, “this is who I am.”
奧普拉·溫弗瑞曾說過：“我以前非常害怕別人對我說‘你以為自己是誰？’但是現在我有勇氣面對他們說‘我就是我’”。
Look to others for what you can learn from them, both good and bad, but never wish you were those individuals.You can compare your results to the results of another, but never compare who you are as a person to another person.
三人行必有我師焉，則其善者而從之，其不善者而改之。你可以拿自己的成果跟別人比較，但是絕對不要拿自己這個人跟別人比較。
Start focusing on what makes you special. Look at your distinguishing traits and develop them.Become the best at what you offer the world.
關注自己的特別之處。找到自己的與眾不同的品質，然后發展它們。培養出最好的自己來奉獻社會。
If you find yourself feeling jealous because you feel you may lose a friendship, relationship, boy or girl friend or spouse
如果因為害怕失去一段友誼、男女朋友或者配偶二新生嫉妒，
Instead of focusing on jealous,focus on what you can control— the value you bring to this relationship.Remember relationship breaks down when one person do not meet the need of the other.Here is my final thought. Stop counting other people's blessing and starting counting on your own.
打消嫉妒心，講關注點放在你可以控制的事情上——你能為你們的關系所帶來的價值。要記住，一段關系的破碎是一位一方不能再滿足另一方的需要。我的最終建議是。不要再對他人抱有期待，要對自己抱有期待。
