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Building Trust Through Confidentiality
通過保密建立信任。
Pssst. Can you keep a secret? How do you react when you hear these words uttered in a hushed tone? Do you feel important that you are about to be trusted with confidential information, or do you wonder if it’s gossip that you don’t want to hear?
你能保守秘密嗎?當有人輕聲的和你說這些話時你會怎么應對?你感覺到了你被信任會保守秘密的重要性了還是你驚奇這是否僅僅是你不想聽的流言蜚語?
In addition to ensuring that you don’t participate in matters that don’t concern you, it’s even more important to keep any confidence that you have been entrusted with by someone else. You can’t expect to advance personally or professionally if you betray the trust someone has placed in you.
除了保證你不會參與和你無關的事之外，對他人的事情保密是很重要的。如果你違背了別人對你的信任你不用奢望提升你私人或職場上的人際關系。
Today’s lesson may prick your conscience; however, my hope is that you will see the immense value in learning the importance of keeping things confidential that should be private and secret.
今天的課程可能會刺痛你的良心;然而我希望你能看到學會對他人的隱私和秘密保密的重要性的無限價值。
The Link Between Trust and Confidentiality
信任和保密之間的橋梁。
When you earn the reputation of someone who can be relied on, you command the respect and trust of people around you and build deeper friendships. In business, trustworthy people are more likely to sell more products, built a larger customer base, receive more raises, and enjoy earlier promotions.
當你獲得了能被信任的名聲時，你就得到周圍人的尊重和信任進而建立更深的友情。在商業(yè)領域，值得信任的人更有可能賣出更多的產品，建立更大的客戶基礎，獲得更多的稱贊和更早得到晉升。
One of the most common, telltale signs of someone who cannot be trusted with confidential information is the person who is says, “So-and-so told me this in confidence, but I know you won’t say anything.”
一些不被信任能保守秘密的告密者最常見的一個告密方式就是說，“某某某告訴我要保密，我相信你不會說出去的。”
While you may feel special that this person trusts you, what about the person whose information they promised not to divulge? Personally, I would think twice about sharing my own sensitive information with this person. In short, I would not trust someone who was telling me other people’s secrets.
當有人信任你時你會感到很特別，但是這個曾許諾不會泄漏信息的人是什么樣的人呢?就本人而言，在我和人分享我的隱秘信息時我會再三考慮。簡而言之，我不會信任老是告訴我他人秘密的人。
