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Dear You're So Money and You Don't Even Know It,
親愛的你如此物質而不自知，
Wow. So now having too much money is being used as an excuse not to get married.
哇哦，所以現在擁有太多的錢也是一個不結婚的借口了。
What will you crazy kids think up next?
你們這些瘋狂的孩子們接下來還能想出來什么？
Again, at the risk of repeating myself: You are allowed to have aspirations for your future and to know whether the relationship you're in is going to take you closer to those aspirations or be the demise of them.
再次冒險重復我的觀點：你允許對未來的抱有期望，知道你所處的戀情是否會帶你接近這些期望或者使這些期望消亡。
No amount of money in the world can buy that away from you.
在這個世界上多少錢都不能買通你的這項權利。
If you're afraid to even broach the topic of marriage for fear that he's going to break up with you, then this dude not only has all the money, but all the power as well.
如果你甚至都不敢提出結婚這個話題，擔心他跟你分手，那你的男票不僅擁有所有的錢，也擁有所有的權利。
And, well, that just pisses me off personally, because no one should be that lucky.
還有，這使我個人十分氣憤，因為沒人應該這么幸運。
Don't be intimidated by his big heaps of cash or his big heaps of baggage of past relationships.
不要被他成堆的金錢和過去的情史嚇到。
Find out if Mr. Moneybags is really into you for the long haul, and don't take any of his Poor Little Rich Boy excuses.
看看富翁先生是否真的會長遠的愛你，不要相信他可憐的富家公子的借口。
Greg
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I personally think if you have to sit and figure out what's the best way to bring up the idea of marriage to someone who you have been intimate with for a substantial amount of time, it's not good news.
我個人認為，如果你坐著思索向某人提出結婚的最好方法，而此人正是你在可觀時間里心存畏懼之人，那這并不是個好消息。
Most guys, or let's say the guys I want you to be dating, will make sure, as soon as reasonably possible, that you know they mean business.
很多男人，或者說我希望，你約會的對象一定會讓你知道他們是在指商業。
So if he's not, get to his mixed feelings and conflict as fast as you can.
如果他不是的話，盡快的盡你所能接觸他的復雜感情和沖突。
Then, as soon as you're ready, go find someone that is spending time worrying about how you're feeling.
然后，一旦你準備好了，去找一個會花時間擔憂你的感受的人吧。
