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These two examples may seem obvious, but remember that compliments come in many forms. Whatever the situation, there is a proper way to acknowledge praise, commendation, or admiration.
這兩個(gè)例子似乎是顯而易見的，但是你要知道恭維可以是很多方式。無論是什么狀況，有一種合適的方式來承認(rèn)表揚(yáng)、贊美和羨慕。
Make eye contact. Acknowledging a compliment is a perfect time to connect with someone. Look the person in the eye when you respond. Doing so communicates sincerity and self-confidence.
眼神交流。承認(rèn)是恭維時(shí)，這是最好的時(shí)機(jī)和別人交流。當(dāng)他做出反應(yīng)時(shí)，看著他的眼睛。真誠和自信的溝通。
Say, “Thank you.” A sincere, unhurried ‘thank you’ along with a smile and eye contact is more often than not all that is necessary.
說,"謝謝你。"時(shí)，不僅是一個(gè)真誠的從容不迫的"謝謝你"，面帶微笑和眼神交流都是必要的。
Don’t explain anything. If you feel moved, you can follow your ‘thank you’ with something positive. Doing so communicates desirable character traits such as friendliness and positivity. Caution: If you can’t keep it brief and will be tempted to explain or rationalize your action or accomplishment, leave it at a simple ‘thank you.’
Here’s how it might sound if Mary and Bill put this advice into practice:不要做任何解釋。如果你被感動(dòng)到了，你要跟隨著你的內(nèi)心去做一些積極向上的事。這樣的交流有友善和積極的特征。警告：如果你不能保持簡單的解釋或理順你的行動(dòng)和成就,就留下簡單的一句話“謝謝你。”如果邁瑞和比爾把建議付諸行動(dòng)，聽起來會(huì)是這樣的：
“Have you lost weight, Mary? You look terrific!”
“你在減肥嗎?邁瑞，你看起來很好!”
Thanks, Barb. I feel great, too.“I’m really happy with the way you handled yourself on that call, Bill.”
謝謝，巴布，我也感覺很好。“比爾，我對(duì)你這樣的做法很滿意。”
Thank you, Jim. I appreciate the feedback.
謝謝你，吉姆。我對(duì)你的回答表示贊美。
Quite a difference, wouldn’t you say? My challenge for you today is three-fold:
完全不同的效果，你會(huì)說嗎?我對(duì)你的挑戰(zhàn)是這三個(gè)：
1. Listen for compliments given to others as you go about your business over the next week. How many times do you hear people rejecting or ignoring a compliment they receive?
2. Give more compliments than you normally would. Notice the responses people give.
3. Finally, put today’s advice into practice the very next time you receive a compliment.
1。你下周做你自己的事時(shí)，去聽別人的贊美。你聽到多少次人們的對(duì)贊美的拒絕或者是當(dāng)收到贊美時(shí)不去理會(huì)? 2.給別人的贊美遠(yuǎn)遠(yuǎn)超過自己，注意一下別人會(huì)給你怎樣的回復(fù)。 3.最后，把今天的建議付諸到適當(dāng)?shù)臅r(shí)間，你會(huì)收到贊美的。
Acknowledging a compliment paid is a simple, yet very effective way to make a positive impression and build a favorable reputation.
承認(rèn)贊美是一種簡單的支付，這是一種有效的途徑給人留下美好的印象并建立一個(gè)好的聲望。
