1.bridge over the "troubled water 兵來將擋，水來土掩

例句：Then we should really bridge over the "troubled water". That's what they say in English. But most of us fail the test, to ourselves, not to our partners.

更應該如俗話所說的“兵來將擋，水來土掩”，想辦法克服困難。

2.check up on 檢查

例句：So we should check up on this to our family members or whomever that is beloved and dear to us.
背棄了內在真正高貴的你，所以我們應該檢查自己對家人或任何我們所鐘愛的人的關系。

3. turn one's backs 背棄

例句：Most of the time in critical situations, we just turn our backs and that is no good.
通常在關鍵的時刻我們反而背棄他們，這樣很不好。

4.in mental suffering 精神煎熬

例句：At that time, she or he is in mental suffering.
不過這是因為他（她）正處在不同的狀況，精神正受煎熬。