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True Love Always Prevails
真愛勝過一切
True love is we stick together in "thick and thin";. Especially when it's thin, when it's troublesome.
真愛是不管情況好壞都在一起，特別是當情況不好、有麻煩時。
Then we should really bridge over the "troubled water". That's what they say in English. But most of us fail the test, to ourselves, not to our partners.
更應該如俗話所說的“兵來將擋，水來土掩”，想辦法克服困難。但是大部分人都不能通過這項考驗而背離了自己，而不是背離了我們的伴侶。
He might leave you, he might stay with you, because you're nice or not nice. But you fail yourself. You leave yourself.
因為不論你好或不好，你的伴侶留下或是離開，是你自己通不過考驗，背離了你自己，
You leave the most noble being that you really are. So we should check up on this to our family members or whomever that is beloved and dear to us.
背棄了內在真正高貴的你，所以我們應該檢查自己對家人或任何我們所鐘愛的人的關系。
Most of the time in critical situations, we just turn our backs and that is no good.
通常在關鍵的時刻我們反而背棄他們，這樣很不好。
Of course we have our anger, our frustrations, because our partners are not as loving as usual, or whomever that is; but he or she is in a different situation. At that time, she or he is in mental suffering.
當然我們也會覺得生氣、挫折，因為我們的伴侶不再像以前一樣可愛，不過這是因為他（她）正處在不同的狀況，精神正受煎熬。
It's just as bad or even worse than physical suffering. Physical suffering you can take a pill or you can have an injection and it stops or at least temporarily stops, and you feel the effect right away; or at least if people are in physical suffering, everyone sympathizes with them.
精神痛苦和生理的痛苦一樣難受，有時候甚至更糟。生理的痛苦可以借吃藥或打針來制止，至少可以暫時止痛，可以馬上見效；或者至少身體受苦時，大家都會同情她。
But when they are in mental anguish, and we pound them more on that, and we turn our backs and become cold and indifferent, that is even more cruel, even worse.
可是當有人處在心理的極度痛苦時，我們卻落井下石，背棄他，變得冷漠不關心，這是更殘忍、更糟糕的事。
That person will be swimming alone in suffering.
那個人就只能孤孤單單地在痛苦中掙扎。
