Just go back? Yeah. Cross your arms up front.
向后到? 是的. 兩手交叉胸前
Now? Whenever you're ready.
現在嗎? 準備好了就可以開始
Okay.
好
Good. Very good.
好的.非常好
All right, Teresa, Mark. You're up.
下面, 特萊茜, 馬克. 你們來
Okay.
好
Now l want you to name something...
下面我要你們列出一些...
that you did that affected your partner...
你們所做過的, 對你的伴侶有影響的...
and that you're not proud of.
并且是負面影響的事情
I had this thing with porno on the computer, sort of.
在我的電腦上, 有一些色情雜志什么的
Actually, I want you to write it down, not say it.
事實上, 我希望你們寫下來 不是說出來
I got a little preoccupied
我以前很喜歡這東西
Okay.
好吧
I want you to put it on the paper that you got for a reason.
我希望你們把它寫在一張紙上, 列出理由
Okay.
好吧
Now make sure it's something the other person doesn't know about...
確保這是你的伴侶所不知道的事情...
that they don't know.
他們毫不知情
Then you are going to give it to the other person...
然后你們互相交換紙條...
All right.
好了
and the other person is never going to look at it.
彼此不許偷看紙上的內容
Ever.
永遠不能看
That's trust.
這就是信任