2. The Controlling
2.控制

Power dynamics in relationships can be tricky. Sometimes one partner clearly runs the show. That can be okay, if the other person doesn’t want any control, but other people may feel like they have no say over their lives. Controlling partners limit their loved ones’ choices and never let them have any independence. Even if their controlling partners make them go out and party, the other person in the relationship feels locked away from the world, like prisoners, because doing that was not their choice. Someone has to let go, or else you’ll both be searching for more leverage somewhere else.
在一段關(guān)系中，控制權(quán)也很難把握。如果你能接受你的伴侶掌握主導(dǎo)權(quán)，這完全沒有問題。但如果你的伴侶完全不想自己的生活被你控制，你就會(huì)覺得你無權(quán)過問他們的生活，問題就出現(xiàn)了。愛控制伴侶的人喜歡替別人做決定，他們絕不讓自己的戀人有任何獨(dú)立性。即使他們讓戀人去參加社交活動(dòng)，對(duì)方也會(huì)覺得自己像犯人，已經(jīng)與世界都隔離了。因?yàn)楸豢刂频娜藷o法選擇自己的人生。你要學(xué)會(huì)放手，不然你和你的戀人就必須在其他方面找回平衡。 內(nèi)容來自:可可英語(yǔ) http://www.ccdyzl.cn/read/201406/306208.shtml