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15. 批評的影響尤其會在高敏感的人這里被放大。
Highly sensitive people have reactions to criticism that are more intense than less sensitive people. As a result, they may employ certain tactics to avoid said criticism, including people-pleasing (so that there is no longer anything to criticize), criticizing themselves first, and avoiding the source of the criticism altogether, according to Aron."People can say something negative, [and] a non-HSP [highly sensitive person] can say, 'Whatever,' and it doesn't affect them," Zeff says. "But a HSP would feel it much more deeply."
高敏感的人相比低敏感的人對批評有更強(qiáng)烈的反應(yīng)。因此，他們會發(fā)展特定的策略去避免批評，包括迎合他們（這樣就再也沒什么可批評的了），先自我批評，同時避免各種批評一起席卷而來，阿隆這樣講道。 “人們可以講負(fù)面的東西，一個低敏感的人可以說，‘隨便吧！’而這不會影響他們，” 澤夫講道。“但是一個高敏感的人會有更深度的感覺。”
