3. If you want things to change, you need to start with changing yourself
如果你想改變什么,那就從改變自己開始吧
Your outer world is a reflection of your inner world. Don’t you know people whose lives are chaotic and stressful? And isn’t that largely because they feel chaotic inside? Yes, it is. We like to think that changing our circumstances will change us. But we have it backwards—we need to change ourselves first before our circumstances will change.
你的外在是內在的一個反應。你難道不覺得那些外表看起來亂糟糟亞歷山大的人們其實內心也是一團亂麻么?的確是這樣。我們總是覺得改變環境就能改變自己。其實我們弄反了-我們需要先改變自己才能隨之改變環境。
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