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戀愛是你的當務之急嗎？
If you're a person who has a vision and a plan, this is a good question to ask yourself. How will a romantic relationship fit in with your priorities? If you know that right now, you're still building your career and there's a lot at stake, is it the right time to have one? While you're finishing one project after another, having a boyfriend or girlfriend is a nice to have that you think about during your breaks.
如果你有自己的目標和規劃，那很有必要捫心自問：一段浪漫的戀愛是否是當務之急？如果你確信如此，別忘了你正在努力打拼事業，百事待興，這時候談戀愛適合嗎？你正項目接項目地忙活，喘息時想想身邊能有個伴兒是件非常美好的事。
If you're fully aware that it's not one of your main concerns, there's a high probability that you'll take your partner for granted. It would be more beneficial and practical for you to allocate your time to what's important to you as of the moment and avoid disappointing someone else.
如果你非常清楚這不是你的重中之重，那就算有戀人，你很可能也不會特別投入。這種情況下，倒不如把時間用來做當下最重要的任務，不要徒勞使他人失望罷。
It's easy to be blinded by the media, past experiences and couples that you encounter about what a romantic relationship will bring you. But before you get consumed by your desire to have one or worse, be brought down by its current unattainability, be wise enough to think twice about it, what you want right now might not be what you need.
媒體宣傳、以往經歷或身邊情侶很可能誤導你對浪漫戀愛的理解。在你沖動想要戀愛前，不如清醒認識到目前的不切實際性，理智做到三思而后行——你現在所渴望的，未必就是你需要的。
