2. Do you even know yourself well enough already?
你已經足夠了解自己了嗎？

It's important to know yourself before becoming part of a relationship. If you don't stand for anything, you'll find yourself unconsciously giving too much and questioning if it was even enough.
談戀愛前一定要對自己足夠了解。如果你毫無立場，到時候會不自覺地無限付出，還一直困惑自己到底付出得夠不夠。

Set standards on the people you want to be in your life and how you want to be treated. Know what you're worth and eventually, you'll make him or her believe it too.
生活中要出現另一半時，先定下雙方相處原則。你要清楚自己的價值，然后讓對方相信你有這樣的價值。