5. You're just too picky
你太挑剔了
Yes, we all want to have a Brad Pitt or Megan Fox type hanging off our arms but it's just not going to happen. Even if we don't want that, we have a list in our minds of traits that our future soulmate must possess and sometimes that list can be rather long, perhaps too long。
是的,我們都想要一個布拉德·皮特這樣的帥哥或是梅根·福克斯那樣的性感美女挽著我們的胳膊,但這太不現實了。哪怕我們期望沒這么高,我們心里都列出了未來的靈魂伴侶必須符合的條件,有時這些條件還不少,也許太多了。
While nobody wants to “settle”, you might want to ask yourself if everything on your list is really that important. Does it matter that much how tall the person is? How much money they make? What color hair they have? It might be worth relaxing some of your standards and seeing what kind of results you get. Remember, nobody is perfect。
沒有人想被他人的條件“框定”,你也許應該問問自己,這些條件真的都這么重要嗎?這個人的身高很重要嗎?他賺多少錢很重要嗎?他/她的頭發(fā)是什么顏色很重要嗎?你也許應該把自己的標準放寬一些,然后來看看結果如何。記住:完美的人不存在。