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Stuck in the 'friend zone' with that special someone who you wish could see you in a more romantic light? Here's a simple insight into getting that someone of your interest, interested。
是不是跟那個自己希望能共度浪漫時光的人還處在“朋友階段”？下面就教你如何讓心儀的人對你來電。
1. Be Patient。
耐心。
This individual who has been your friend, is not going to overnightfall magically in love with you with no matter what advances you make. Don't assume because you're good friends, she will believe you can be a good lover to her by just upfront telling her, you have to subtly reveal it to her. Remember you first have to stack the odds in your favour first before you can go for the kill。
甭管你多么優秀，這個人既然是你的朋友，就不太可能突然莫名其妙愛上你。別想當然以為，既然你倆是朋友，只要你直接向她坦白她就愿意接受；相反，你應該潛移默化地讓她明白你的心。為避免碰壁，還是先從對自己有利的小事做起吧。
2. Carry on being a good friend。
繼續保持親密的朋友關系。
Don't just stop all friendly things with her and become this new flirty guy. You'll creepher out and lose her friendship。
千萬別光顧了要成為戀人而忘了要朋友，這樣你不僅可能嚇到她，還會損失友情。
3. Be Bold.
勇敢點。
This is probably the reason why you got stuck in the friend zone in the first place. Let her know how amazing you think she is (but don't overkill it)， live in the moment, when you’re out compliment her on her physical features, for example "You always look great, but tonight you're figure in that dress...... simply flawless."
也許正是因為缺乏勇氣，你倆才會從一開始就只是朋友關系。請告訴她你是多么欣賞她(但別夸大其辭)，贊美此時此刻的她。比如當你倆在一起時，夸夸她的外貌，說：“你總是這么漂亮，今晚穿這身裙子簡直無可挑剔哇！”
4. Flirt more。
講點俏皮情話
Start flirting a little more. Learn the art of kino, touch her more, especially when flirting. But don't just flirt with her, flirt with other women especially in her presence (don't overkill though)， let her see other women desire you, in doing this you are leveling the playing field, allow her to think you're interested in other women, it displays confidence, she'll respect you。
多跟她調調情吧。你可以學電影里的樣子，跟她俏皮嬉笑、拉手搭肩。但也別只跟她一個人調笑，也逗逗其他女人，尤其是當著她的面(別太過分就是)，讓她知道還有別的女人仰慕你；如此你掌控了這場愛情游戲，使她以為你也喜歡其他女人，其實你也還挺有魅力嘛。然后，她就會用心對你嘍。
5. Go for the kill.
拿出行動。
By now you are ready to ask her out on a date. The best way to do this, ask her out at an event where you're likely to be a very important figure in the room, for example, your birthday party. Take her outside or somewhere quiet, where the two of you can be alone, pull her in close, look her dead in the eye and say, "Would you like to go out some time?" She'll know its not on a friendship term。
關系發展到這個階段，你就可以跟她約會了。最好帶她一起參加能讓你顯得比較重要的活動，比如你的生日派對。帶她到外面或安靜點的地方，就你和她，然后拉過她、看著她的眼睛，說：“愿不愿意什么一起出去玩玩？”她定能意會到友誼之外的情意。
6. Get physical early。
親密接觸。
You need to get out that friend zone and the best way is to get intimate. When you go out hold her hand, put your arms around her and read her body language, if she’s not pulling away she’s comfortable with you。
若想跨越朋友階段，最好的辦法就是親密接觸。倆人約會的時候，牽著她的手，摟著她的腰，留意她的反應；要是她沒推開你，說明她也喜歡與你這樣親密接觸哦。
7. If you're close with her, hint that you like them or straight out tell them。
如果你跟她很親密，直接暗示你喜歡她，要么干脆表白吧。
Most of the time they will feel the same way, even if they don't want to admit it because some people are afraid of losing a great friendship. But most of the time a great friendship is a great relationship. It's just the transition between the two and the fear of losing the friendship that usually gets in the way。
有時候她或許跟你想的一樣，只是擔心表白了就做不成朋友才嘴上不承認而已。有時候友誼也能成就一段愛情，橫隔在中間的只是倆人的姿態和對失去友情的擔憂罷了。
