1. Does he have a sense of humor that dovetails with yours?
1. 他的幽默感是否與你的相吻合？

2. Does he make you laugh?
2. 他能不能逗你發笑？

3. Are your waking/sleeping schedules compatible? It's a bummer to make it work when he's a perpetually early riser and you're the lie-in type.
3. 你們的睡覺習慣相契合嗎？

4. Do you like the same kind of food? Drink about the same amount of alcohol?
4. 你們喜不喜歡同樣的食物？酒量相當嗎？

5. If you've been dating long enough for him to meet your friends and family, does he get along with them?
5. 他能否和你的朋友家人相處良好？

6. Do you have the same views about money?
6. 金錢觀是否相似？

7. How well do you work together on a shared project?
7. 你們合作處理同一件事情時感覺如何？

8. Do you think he's too smart--or not nearly as smart as you?
8. 你們能相互hold住嗎？

9. Do you like the way he solves problems, even minor ones?
9. 你贊不贊同他處理問題的方式?

10. Do you respect him? Does he respect you?
10. 你們相互尊重嗎？

If you can answer these questions honestly and still feel good, it's entirely possible that you've met the person who's right for you. Of course there are other factors that come into play such as physical attraction, financial matters, and geography. Chances are you've already been in a relationship where the other person was less than ideally suited to you. History doesn't have to be repeated it's all up to you. But a good way to start building a solid relationship is asking yourself some questions and giving yourself some honest answers.