4. Share Your Passions 分享熱情
Take turns choosing an arts or cultural event to attend together each month. The point is to show your partner what you love, so that he or she can experience it as you do (or close enough). To make this work, both of you have to be flexible: someone might have to attend a football match or the theatre. The reward lies in experiencing each other's passion. And who knows – you may have a lot more fun than you ever imagined.
每月輪流選擇并一起參加一項藝術或者文化活動。這么做,是向你的愛人展示你的愛好,這樣他/她也可以和你一起經歷(或者近距離感受)。想要做好這一點,你們倆都必須很寬容并愿意配合:可能有人得去看足球比賽或者去劇院。這樣做的好處是可以體會對方到某些事物的熱愛之情。而且說不定,你會發現其中的樂趣比你想象得要多得多!