Follow your heart 追隨真心
　　
　　Liu Qiang, of the Henan University student affairs office, says that a change in career or study can be a major threat to any relationship.
來自河南大學學生處的劉強（音譯）表示，對于所有戀人來說，學業或工作上的轉變都會對他們的情感構成很大的威脅。
　　
　　“When one partner is looking toward a new horizon, there will be conflict if the other puts their attention elsewhere,” says Liu. “This is a common problem – especially when the relationship is not mature.”
劉強說：“當一方向往新世界時，如果另一半心有旁騖，那么矛盾就會產生。這是一個普遍存在的問題，尤其當這段感情還未成熟的時候?！?BR>　　
　　Yang says he cannot forgive his girlfriend for what she has done to him, but, according to Liu, he should go a little easier on his ex.
楊牟說，對于女朋友對自己所做的一切，他無法釋懷。但劉強卻表示，楊牟應該對前女友寬容一些。
　　　　
　　“Graduation can be hard – it’s not a sin for someone to think about him or herself a bit more,” says Liu. He recommends that all student couples to bear one thing in mind: “Love is never a matter of calculation; sometimes following your instincts will lead you to the right answer.”
劉強說：“畢業過程是艱難的；一些人可能會稍有私心，但這也并非十惡不赦?！绷硗?，他也奉勸學生情侶們要切記：“愛情并不是一道算術題；有時追隨直覺，你會得到正確答案的?！?/FONT>