戀人間不要有秘密
It's never a good idea to withhold information from your loved ones, even with the purest of motives. As we see in soaps, people often think they're doing someone else a favor by going it alone, or protecting them from unpleasant truths, but it always blows up in their faces. In real life, secrets isolate us, make us miserable, and sometimes ruin relationships completely. Besides, isn't it more respectful to allow your loved one to decide what to do with the facts, rather than taking away their power?
不管怎樣不要和你的愛人有秘密，即使你的動機并不壞。我們經常在言情劇中看到，人們會為了某人好而不把什么事情告訴某人，或者不讓他知道某些實情，而結果永遠會是更早。在現實生活中，秘密會孤立我們，給我們帶來痛苦，有時候甚至會直接導致感情破裂。而且讓你的愛人自己決定該怎樣面對事實相較于前者不也是更尊重他的做法嗎？

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