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I have ever had abundant love experiences. My most impressive perception is that it is the best to be single.
我曾經(jīng)有過豐富的感情經(jīng)歷。最深的體會是，不愛的時候狀態(tài)最好。
When you love someone, all your attention is focused on him. You will be missing him, expecting to see him, worrying about him and feeling sad about him. In all, your whole heart has been dedicated to him without the least to yourself. All your happiness and sorrows stem from external factors, while all your giving and expectation will oftentimes result in desperation. The bigger your anticipation, the deeper your desperation.
當愛一個人的時候，你的心思都在他的身上，想著他，盼著他，擔心是他，發(fā)愁是他，期望是他，失望是他，一顆心都在他人身上時，便沒有了自己。你的喜怒哀樂，都是因為外在的原因。而一切的付出和期待，往往得到的是失望。期望越大，失望也越大。
When you are single, you will concentrate on yourself. You will arrange your dressing and dietary in a healthy manner and do whatever you like without considering others’ views. Only at that time will you feel downright relieved mentally and live entirely for yourself.
不愛的時候，你的心思才收回到自己身上，為了自己的健康去合理地衣食住行，為了自己的美麗隨心所欲地打扮，想成什么樣就什么樣，想做什么人就做什么人，不必考慮他人的眼光。這時你才能感覺到徹底的心靈上的自由和解放，完全為自己的喜好而活著。
