After you’ve used that technique, then you just might have a bit of general chit-chat. A bit of fluff talk, like ‘How have you been?’ ‘What have you been up to?’ She may be at work, just get some general details. And then just simply lead the conversation using topics you’ve already spoken about. So, it’s basically your job,when you’re interacting, to get those details, to find out some things about her, you should be taking an active interest in any girl you speak to, even if you’re actually not interested in catching up with her. Just get in the habit of taking an interest in her. In people in general, but especially women. And as you get better at that, naturally things will tend to fall in place,especially for those critical points when you’re actually out standing in front of a girl that you’re really attracted to and you would love to get her phone number. And follow up with a date. It’s like all those other interactions are practice for that key point, when there’s a girl in front of you that you really like. I cannot stress how important that is. Otherwise, if you haven’t had all those interactions prior, and you get the girl that you really like sitting in front of you, and you’ve had zero practice, chances are it’s not gonna happen.

你采用了“揣測誰的來電”技巧之后，你也許會要話一下家常，閑談一下，比如“最近過得怎么樣”“你最近在做么”之類的。她或許在工作，那就獲取一些一般的細節信息，然后只需用你們已經談論過的話題繼續聊下去就行了。嗯，在交流時，獲取這些細節信息以及了解她的一些事情基本上是你的任務，你應該以一種充滿興趣的情緒和與你聊天的任何女生談話，就算你其實沒有興趣知道她的近況也應如此。你要養成習慣，表現得對她感興趣——對所有人感興趣，尤其是女性。一旦你在這方面有了進展，好事自然而然地就會降臨了，尤其是在那些關鍵場合的時候——你真的站在了你非常喜歡的那個女孩面前，而且你非常想拿到她的電話號碼的時候。然后再定個約會。那個你喜歡的女孩站在你面前的時候是關鍵時刻，而那些其他的交流就像是這個關鍵時刻的預演。我無法強調這種預演有多么重要。可是，如果你事先沒有這種交流，就算你非常喜歡的那個女生就坐在你面前，如果你沒有任何經驗，你追到她的機率也是零。