So, how do you do it? Prepare for the call. The Caller Guessing Technique. Now, the way this technique works is that you’re simply letting her guess it’s you,while using callback humor and topics. When she answers the phone, you’re not going ‘Hey, this is Ben, we met at…’ You’re not even identifying it’s you. You might say something cheeky or something interesting or flirting on the phone that is specific to you and her andthe interaction that you guys had when you met. Now you’re starting to see why it’s so important to be present, to use the techniques, to flirt, to spark attraction, to connect.You find out things about the girl,she finds out things about you,you’ve got this dynamic going back and forward, and now you’ve got useful things that you can talk about when you make the first call, when you’re out on that first date. There shouldn’t have to be any of those awkward silences,there should be always things to talk about. And when you get very,very good at this, you’ll actually get women saying to you, ‘I feel Icould say anything to you. You just,I just feel so comfortable.’ And that will happen, as you become really,really good.

那么，你該怎么做呢？打電話前做好準備。采用“揣測誰的來電”技巧。這個技巧的原理在于，你要簡簡單單地讓她猜出是你——這時要使用上次面對面聊天時的幽默和話題。她接通電話之后，你不能說“你好，我是本，咱們上次在哪里見過……”你千萬不能明確你是誰。你應該在電話里說些挑逗的話或者有趣的話或者調調情，說到的內容必須僅限于你和她之間，僅限于你們倆上次遇到時交流過的內容。這樣你就開始發現為何當時見面是如此重要，使用一些技巧是如此重要，調情、激發興趣以及心領神會是如此重要。你能從中了解那個女孩的事，她也會了解到你的事，你們這種互動不斷來回，現在你就有了一些很有用的信息可以在第一次打電話的時候提起，以及第一次正式約會的時候聊聊。這其中不該有任何那種尷尬的沉默，而應該是總有說不完的話。當你在這方面表現得非常好的時候，你就可以真的讓女士們對你說出“我覺得什么事都可以跟你說，你真是……你讓我感覺很舒服。”在你表現得非常好的時候，這就會發生了。