This is very important. This is like a critical point from, you’ve done all that greatwork, you’ve been out interacting, you’ve got her phone number, now it’s like ‘Right, I’ve, I’ve,OK, I’ve got to move forward with this, I’ve gotta take some steps. I need to set up a date to really get to that point where I can establish some sort of dating relationship’ ,whatever it is that you’re looking for.

首次通話非常重要。你能做的都做了，你們已經面對面交流過了，你已經拿到了她的電話號碼，相對于這些而言，首次通話就像一個臨界點。現在，你在尋思，“好了，我已經……已經……好吧，我得再進一步，我得采取點行動才行。我需要先約她出來一次，才能真正達到建立某種關系的地步”——不管你期望是什么關系，你都得先約到她。