3. Be appreciative. 欣賞

You can never appreciate your spouse too much. He or she needs to hear how much you admire the way he or she gets the bills paid, organizes the kids' activities, made that tasty shrimp scampi last night, rewired the basement, cleared out three months' worth of old magazines from beside the couch, or got the trash out to the curb just in time for pickup.

再怎么稱贊你的愛人都不為過。當他(她)把賬單付清,當他(她)組織了一場孩子的活動,當他(她)做完烹制出美味的奶油蒜味蝦,或者當他(她)把地下室的電線重新接好,當他(她)把沙發旁積累了三個月的舊雜志清理干凈,當他(她)出門倒垃圾正好趕上垃圾車的時候,愛人都需要聽到你的贊美之詞。