10. Laugh together--laughter is medicine. When you share good laughs together; the fun grows in the relationship and you grow closer and stronger every day.
一起開懷大笑——笑是良藥。當(dāng)你倆一起開懷的時(shí)候,你們的關(guān)系也會(huì)伴隨著笑聲一天天地親近和堅(jiān)固起來。
11. Send a card for no reason--another cliché? Maybe, but everyone likes to receive a nice "I love you" or "I miss you" notes every once in a while.
沒什么緣由地送張卡片——又很老套嗎?不過誰不喜歡時(shí)不時(shí)地收到些“我愛你”,“我想你”之類的卡片呢?
12. Listen--this could be the most important one ever, but note that you should listen with empathy and not just hear what they are saying; you should get involved.
聆聽——這非常重要,但注意聆聽的時(shí)候你應(yīng)該全情投入并參與其中,而不僅僅只是聽到了對(duì)方說的話。