
15. Be Yourself
"It's OK to show up at a guy's house with a dozen roses and declare your undying affection. It's OK to have too much to drink and call your ex 20 times and then to be mortally embarrassed when you realize your number must have shown up on his caller ID. It's OK, because making a fool of yourself for love is ultimately about you, how much you have to give and the distances you will travel to keep your heart wide open when everything around you makes you feel like slamming it shut and soldering it closed." —Veronica Chambers, Glamour's features director and author of The Joy of Doing Things Badly
15. 做你自己:你可以拿著一打玫瑰到你喜歡的男人門口對他做露骨的表白;你也可以在喝醉酒以后不停的給前男友打電話,并在酒醒之后因為意識到他可以看到來電顯示上自己的號碼而覺得尷尬。你可以這樣做,因為為愛而做傻事是一件很私人的,只是關于你自己的事。是關于在壓力困境和傷害中,你可以為愛付出多少,并且愿意為了愛去做出多少努力和犧牲的一件事。—— Veronica Chambers