9. Become wise. 讓自己明智起來。

　　You are highly intuitive, so work on deepening your ability to trust your intuition. Keep learning and growing. In the long run, your wisdom will become one of your greatest assets, both as a way to meet your own needs and to help others. (Many women placed a very high value on developing their wisdom。)

　　你直覺很好，所以應(yīng)該深化這種能力，相信自己的直覺。保持學(xué)習(xí)和成長。從長遠(yuǎn)來看，你的智慧會成為自己最大的資產(chǎn)之一，這對于滿足自己的要求和幫助別人都是如此。(許多女性把增強(qiáng)智慧看得很重。)

　　Being a man or woman isn't about blindly following popular gender patterns, nor is it about rejecting such patterns out of hand and rebelliously embracing their opposites. Ultimately you must define what kind of man or woman you will become. This is a choice you must make for yourself as an individual, regardless of what anyone else thinks. What kind of man/woman do you wish to be? Life awaits your answer…..。

　　做一名男性或者女性并不是盲目地去遵從流行的性別模式，也不是全盤否定這些模式而叛逆地反其道而行。從根本上說，你必須決定自己希望成為什么樣的男人或女人。無論他人怎樣想，作為一個個體，你必須為自己做出選擇。你希望成為什么樣的男人/女人？生活等待著你的答案……

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