九、與西人交往,并非想象得那么容易
國內人以為我們在國外都有一些西人朋友,其實不然,與西人較深層次地交往,除了語言的差異,更重要的是文化的隔閡。誰都對身邊事務的關心程度甚于外域,普通西人熱衷中國文化、渴望結識華人朋友的少之又少,“物以類聚,人以群分”,在哪里都一樣。
The domestic person thought that we in overseas certaingly have some westerner friends. But in fact it is not so. It is difficult to develop deep level contact with foreigners for language difference, and also cultural barrier.