4. Take advantage of the benefits a long distance relationship offers. 利用異地戀帶來(lái)的優(yōu)勢(shì)。

More time with friends and/or family, no arguments over toothpaste caps, the pleasure of seeing your sweetheart again after a long absence, time to mull your options (rather than snapping at your partner impulsively) before you respond to that email she/he wrote that seemed so rude the first time you read it, etc. Most important, being far apart gives you a chance to maintain your individuality--something that can get lost in the shuffle when couples spend all their free time together.
有更多的時(shí)間陪伴你的朋友和家人，不會(huì)為雞毛蒜皮的小事爭(zhēng)吵，而且長(zhǎng)久分離后的相聚會(huì)更加甜蜜。當(dāng)你遇到對(duì)方提出的無(wú)理要求或是其他類似情況時(shí)，你有更多的時(shí)間去決斷，而不是像非異地那樣給你的愛(ài)人當(dāng)頭一棒。更重要的是，你們之間的距離讓你得以保持自己的個(gè)性——而這些都是容易在情侶日日相處的時(shí)光里消磨掉的東西。