5 Confront and master the inevitable crises of life.
共同面對和掌控生活中不可避免的危機。

6 Maintain the strength of the marital bond in the face of adversity. The marriage should be a safe haven in which partners are able to express their differences, anger and conflict.
在面對逆境時保持婚姻關系的穩定?；橐鰬斒且粋€安全的港灣，在這里夫妻之間可以表達他們的不同觀點、忿怒和沖突。

7 Use humor and laughter to keep things in perspective and to avoid boredom and isolation.
通過幽默和笑聲來對待事情，避免厭倦和孤立。

8 Nurture and comfort each other, satisfying each partnerís needs for dependency and offering continuing encouragement and support.
扶持和安慰彼此，滿足彼此依戀的需求，并提供持續性的鼓勵和支持。

9 Keep alive the early romantic, idealized images of falling in love, while facing the sober realities of the changes wrought by time.
隨著時間的流逝，即使面對理性的現實，也要保持年輕時候一顆浪漫的心和墜入愛河時美好的憧憬。