This discovery may change people's expectations of what they want in long-term relationships.
這個(gè)發(fā)現(xiàn)或許會(huì)改變?nèi)藗儗?duì)長(zhǎng)期關(guān)系的一般預(yù)期。
According to the authors, companionship love, which is what many couples see as the natural progression of a successful relationship, may be an unnecessary compromise.
研究者稱,雖然伙伴式的愛(ài)情在很多夫婦看來(lái)是成功愛(ài)情關(guān)系的自然發(fā)展階段,但它實(shí)際上可能是一種不必要的妥協(xié)。
"Couples should strive for love with all the trimmings," Acevedo said. "And couples who've been together a long time and wish to get back their romantic edge should know it is an attainable goal that, like most good things in life, requires energy and devotion."
Acevedo說(shuō):“夫妻應(yīng)該努力經(jīng)營(yíng)愛(ài)情,讓它變得更完美。那些結(jié)婚多年、希望找回浪漫感覺(jué)的夫婦,應(yīng)該認(rèn)識(shí)到這是完全可以實(shí)現(xiàn)的目標(biāo)。浪漫和生活中絕大多數(shù)好東西一樣,它需要投入精力才能達(dá)成。”