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But there's a need I don't know Do you believe kids have personality, I mean, when they're born
但是有必要 我不知道 你相信孩子在出生時有人格嗎
Do you think, you know do you think you were not necessarily predestined to be something,but do you think people are born with personality
你有沒有覺得 你在出生時就被決定了要成為某個人還是你覺得人生來就有人格嗎
I mean, to me, if you go pick out a puppy whenever I've gotten a puppy or a kitten, I always pick the nutso-ist one, the biggest one,
我是說 如果你要選一只小狗 每次要選小狗或者小貓時 我總是選最瘋的那只 最大的那只
the one that just obviously is the happiest creature of the bunch
狗群里面明顯最快樂的那只
Well, if we go and we look at a bunch of kittens or a bunch of puppies in a litter and they're different,
如果我們看到一窩小貓或則一窩小狗它們各有特點
why would a litter of kids be any different
那為什么一窩孩子會一樣呢
You know, why wouldn't they have personality
那么 他們為什么沒有人格呢
And so I think, you know, as a parent you should neither
所以我認為 作為家長 你不該
you know, I have two daughters who are very, very successful and people always say, you know,"Wow," you know, "you obviously did a lot of stuff right "And I say, "No, I was just lucky"
我有兩個非常非常成功的女兒 人們總會說"你肯定做了很多很明智的事情"我會說 "不 只是運氣好罷了"
You know, they make me look good like I knew what I was doing They kind of succeeded in spite of me
他們覺得我很棒 似乎這些都是我的功勞 但是她們似乎是克服了我的影響而走向成功的
But, you know, I mean, obviously there's something there
但是要知道 肯定是有原因的
And you as a person, you work with that
而且作為一個人 肯定就受影響
You can only fight against it to a certain extent
你只能在某種程度上做反抗
