可可電臺，每期節(jié)目一話題，讓英語磨練耳朵的同時學(xué)到更多有益的小知識，豐富知識的同時受益于生活。

How to deal with horrible people

如何跟煩人的人打交道

The Manipulative Jerk

好指使人的混蛋

So we've talked about annoying people, but what about the people that are actually mean, manipulative, or downright evil?

我們討論了該如何應(yīng)對令人討厭的人，但那些卑鄙、好指使人或非常壞的人該如何應(yīng)對呢?

Sometimes these can be harder to spot, because they'll often make you feel like you're the problem. They'll play on your guilt, conceal their evil in altruism, or exploit your sympathies, and the sooner you realize what's really happening, the sooner you can begin to confront the mand root them out for good.

有時候這些人可能更難發(fā)覺，因?yàn)樗麄兺鶗屇阌X得自己才是有問題的那個人。他們會利用你的內(nèi)疚，通過自我犧牲來掩蓋他們的邪惡，或者利用你的同情心，你越早意識到實(shí)際發(fā)生的問題，你就可以越早地開始面對他們并徹底糾出他們。

Don't let them argue with you, either—if they're truly manipulative, you need to end the relationship and move on without letting them retaliate.

不要讓他們與你爭吵，如果他們真的好指使人，你需要斷絕與他們的往來，繼續(xù)過好你的生活，不要讓他們報(bào)復(fù)。

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