可可電臺，每期節目一話題，讓英語磨練耳朵的同時學到更多有益的小知識，豐富知識的同時受益于生活。

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Acknowledge and affirm your partner's feelings

察覺并確認另一半的感覺

To nip jealousy in the bud, first youhave to take ownership of your feelings and understand how your behavior impactsyour partner.

想要將嫉妒掐滅在萌芽之中，那你首先得了解自己的感情、明白自己的行為會如何影響另一半。

For example, if your partner does notfeel good when you stay out late with a co-worker, this doesn't mean that youacquiesce to everything your partner wants.

比如，如果你和同事在外呆到很晚讓另一半很不爽，這并不意味著你默認了另一半想要的一切。

However, it goes a long way when you sayto your partner, 'I know that you feel upset with the amount of time andattention that I am giving to this other person. I don't want you to feel thatway.'

然而，你可能要過很久才會對另一半這樣說，'我知道你不開心，不開心我和另一個人共處那么久、不開心我對他的關注。我不想你這樣。'

With that statement, you acknowledgedhow your partner was feeling and you told them that you don't want them to behurt by your behavior.

說完這句話后，你承認了另一半的感情，而且還告訴他你不想因為自己的行為而讓他受傷。

-Chantel Cohen, owner of CWC Coachingand Therapy in Atlanta, GA

--喬治亞州亞特蘭大CWCCoaching and Therapy的老板錢特爾·科恩

【知識點講解】

take ownership of 采取所有權

例句：

Take ownership of the situation and the solution.

對局勢和解決方法的掌控引導.

This directory server is shutting down, and cannot take ownership of new floating single - master operation roles.

這個目錄服務器已關閉, 并且不能接受新的浮動單主機操作角色的所有權.

The diversification that we should take form of state ownership implementation seriously and change effectively.

我們應重視公有制實現形式的多樣化和有效化.

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