說起“人生贏家”，常給人一種遙不可及的感覺。相比追求當(dāng)鳳毛麟角的“人生贏家”，也許關(guān)注自己的內(nèi)心，培養(yǎng)豁達、堅韌的“贏家個性”更為重要。今天，Jenny和Jason就要分享何為“贏家個性”。

Winning personality: 贏家個性

“Winning” emphasizes the importance of winning people over and create a win win situation: “贏家 "強調(diào)的是贏得人心，創(chuàng)造雙贏

It means you don’t win at others’ expense. Rather, you win by winning people over and helping them win: 這意味著你不會以犧牲他人的利益為代價。相反，通過贏得他人并幫助他人贏得勝利

贏家個性的關(guān)鍵要素

1. Self awareness：自我認知、自我認識

Recognizing one’s own strengths and weaknesses without exaggeration: 對自己的優(yōu)點和缺點客觀認識，不夸大

2. Confidence: 自信

Believing in one’s ability to succeed, which helps them take risks and navigate challenges: 相信自己有能力取得成功，能幫助你敢于承擔(dān)風(fēng)險、應(yīng)對挑戰(zhàn)

3. Humility: 謙卑

Having a modest view of one's own importance：謙卑看待自己的重要性

It involves being grounded, acknowledging one's limitations, and being open to learning from others: 這包括腳踏實地、承認自己的局限性，并愿意虛心向他人學(xué)習(xí)

4. Adaptability: 適應(yīng)性

Being flexible and open to change, especially in response to new information or circumstances: 對變化持靈活開放的態(tài)度，尤其是在應(yīng)對新信息或新情況時

5. Assertiveness: 果敢

Being confident and direct in expressing one's needs, opinions, and feelings while respecting the perspectives of others: 敢于分享自己的想法、觀點、感受。同時又能尊重他人的觀點

6. Curiosity: 好奇心

A strong desire to learn and grow, constantly seeking new knowledge and ways to improve: 強烈的學(xué)習(xí)和成長愿望，不斷尋求新知識和提升的途徑

7. Emotional intelligence: 情緒智商

The ability to understand and manage one’s own emotions and those of others, empathetic: 能夠理解并管理自己和他人的情緒，具有同理心

8. Goal-oriented: 目標(biāo)導(dǎo)向

Having a clear vision of what they want to achieve and setting specific, measurable steps to reach it: 對自己想要實現(xiàn)的目標(biāo)有清晰的認識，并能為實現(xiàn)目標(biāo)制定具體、可衡量的步驟

9. Discipline: 自律

Consistent habits and the ability to stay focused on long-term goals, even when motivation wanes: 能堅持不懈的保持習(xí)慣、專注于長期目標(biāo)，即使在動力減退時

10. Perseverance：毅力、忍耐

Steadfastness and determination to continue working toward a goal or overcoming challenges despite difficulties, obstacles, or delays: 即使遇到困難、障礙或延誤，仍能堅定不移地朝著目標(biāo)努力、克服挑戰(zhàn)

11. Persistence：堅持

Staying committed to goals, even when progress is slow or difficult：即使進展緩慢或困難重重，也能堅守目標(biāo)

12. Resilience：韌勁、堅韌

The capacity to recover quickly from setbacks and keep moving forward despite obstacles：能從挫折中迅速恢復(fù)，克服困難繼續(xù)前進

13. Optimism: 樂觀

Maintaining a positive outlook, key in overcoming challenges and setbacks without getting discouraged：保持積極的心態(tài)，對于克服挑戰(zhàn)、挫折而不氣餒至關(guān)重要

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