介紹:

情景重現：You may have come across a guy that fancies you and wants to go out with you. But if you don’t, and he’s being persistent（堅持的）, then you’ve got a bit of an issue on your hands.

你或許遇到一個男生，他很傾慕你。她想和你約會。但如果你不想，而他又很堅持，那邊你就會有點小麻煩。

Not all guys are bad. You have to understand that a guy may be persistent only because he likes you a lot. In some cases, the guy may be genuinely（真誠地） nice and may only want you to get to know him better.

不是所有的男生都是壞男生。你得懂一個男生那么堅持是因為他非常喜歡你。有時候，這個男生或許是真誠地對你好，或者只想讓你更多地了解他。

And in some other cases, he may assume you’re playing hard to get and may pursue you with renewed vigor（重新燃起的熱情）.

但另外的時候，他可能會認為你是裝出矜持之態，于是呢又會重新燃起追求你的熱情。

come across 遇到，遇見

fancy: be sexually attracted to someone 傾慕，愛慕

assume： 假定，假設

play hard to get：（尤指戀愛之初）故作冷淡；裝出矜持之態

最重要的原則： be honest and direct. 坦誠，直接點。

說什么“I had a lot of fun on our date but I don’t feel that chemistry（眼緣） with you. ”

“和你出去挺開心，但是我覺得我們沒有眼緣。”

You seem like a great guy but I’m just not interested in you like that.

你倒是挺好的，但是呢，我對你沒有那么大的興趣。

Thank you for the wonderful evening! I’m sorry but I don’t see us as compatible（兼容的，協調的）. Good luck with your future dates.

謝謝帶我度過了一個美好的晚上，但是，很不好意思，我覺得我們不太搭。祝你將來的約會好運。